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Vikas Shah, a Professor of Entrepreneurship has interviewed the likes of Sir Richard Branson, Sir James Dyson, and Steve Ballmer and here he reveals their simple secrets. Their secret formula is captured in these ten points and unsurprisingly, passion is a vital ingredient. These people set out to pursue something they love doing and make a change without intending to make crazy money in the first place.

1. Find your passion: The vast majority of people who have made their billions didn’t intend to make that money; they found something they were unbelievably passionate about, and made it their life. It just so happened their timing was perfect, and it became a huge wealth generator – but that passion was the starting point.

2. Be resilient: The overwhelming majority of billionaires I’ve met advise me that you have be resilient. You have to be able to get back up after the knocks, you have to be prepared to fail and to embrace that, and you have to be prepared to operate outside the comfort zone of your normal life. 



3. Don’t chase wealth: Without exception, every single billionaire I’ve met has told me that starting a business for them was never about the money – it was about making a big change in the world, whether that’s revolutionising technology, solving a problem, improving lives, or creating something. That was the driver.

4. Look after your health: It’s a common mistake to think that these individuals are working 23.5 hours a day. The overwhelming majority of billionaires I know are extremely committed to their health - they sleep well, eat well, take breaks, and make sure they are in peak-performance (otherwise they can’t lead). 
This isn’t just a ‘nice perk of being rich,’ but rather something that’s been an important part of their lives from the start. 

5. Think about how you can help people: One inspiring characteristic of all the billionaires I’ve met has been a deep sense of philanthropy (which has often been with them from the start of their journeys). 
Most have been committed to changing lives in a positive way, and have applied their contacts and skills to helping charities at a community level initially, and then as they grow, in a wider sense through their foundations. More than a few have told me that they feel this is a ‘moral imperative’ 

6. Think about the long-term: Very few (if any) billionaires think about the short-term; most are constantly thinking about how they can make their business sustainable, often long after they’re gone. It’s about the generation-length time frame, not a quick buck - and that’s a powerful part of how they’ve been successful. 

7. It’s about execution: Ideas are important, but just because you’re an ideas person- doesn’t mean you’ll make it. As one billionaire told me, ‘having a great idea is great, but you have to execute it!’
8. Be a people person: Without exception, every single billionaire I’ve met has significantly credited their success to their team. To make this kind of money you need to have a brilliant team, who are motivated and led by your vision, and that you can take on the journey. This means you have to be a people person; you have to have a high emotional intelligence. 

9. Be open and find a mentor: Every single billionaire I know has a mentor, a coach or a close friend they can confide in. Nobody knows all the answers and having a space to challenge and be challenged is important.

10. Be yourself: Don’t try and be someone else, don’t try and be some pantomime villain of a boss: be who you are, and leverage that. As Richard Branson told me when I asked him ‘who’ he is: 'I am the tie-loathing adventurer, philanthropist and troublemaker, who believes in turning ideas into reality.'





Source: Daily Mail

Relationship with a lady is all about
(1)Being in love with a lady who loves you back fully or sparingly
(2)Belonging with a lady whom your spirit feels is beautiful enough
for your heart
(3)Dating a lady whom you are never shy to show to the world
(4)Being in deep intimate friendship with a lady whom your good guys
also approve

Relationship with a lady entails
(1)Sacrificing your own time to fulfill hers
(2)Working hard to make her love you back fully
(3)Showing her many reasons why you both should be together
(4)Being available whenever she's in want and need
(5)Sticking closely to her


FACTORS THAT PROMOTE GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH A LADY
(A) Commonness: Relationship with a lady is best favored when you have
something in common with her. The lady can be your
(1)Department mate
(2)Fellowship mate
(3)Sports mate
(4)I.T mate
(5)Work mate
(6)School mate, and more
In all the above, you and your lady will always have something to
discuss and ponder about. You both may not be in same level, but yet
you both have a common experience.
The longevity of a relationship is having an issue and things to talk
about and solve. If a lady was your department mate, you both would
always have some assignments and home work to solve together. You both
would always have topics and subtopics to discuss. Same applies to the
other commonness; where you both were IT or sports or work mates. You
would always have something to work on together.
Relationship is very lovely when you both are always engaged in
solving and tackling issues together as they evolve. It engenders
intimacy and faithfulness.
If you didn't/don't have anything in common with your lady, you both
may end up being just sexual partners. That's not a good relationship!

(B) Plainness: Openness, Truthfulness. You have to be a simple guy.
Whether you are very wealthy or not, you have to present yourself as
an ordinary guy. It doesn't harm your personality. A relationship
that's simple and plain is often very difficult to be attacked by
jealous friends.
Again, there's need for openness. No secrets no lies. Your lady should
know who you really are. This promotes trust.

(C) Friendliness: Be good friends with your lady. Play like children.
Do bizarre things together. Do horrible things together. Share your
weaknesses and help each other to strengthen them. Don't just think
you are love and sexual partners. Do think you are the best of
friends.

(D) Boldness: Don't be shy. Don't be frightened. Be bold to ask for
anything you want from her.

(E) Stylishness: Common! Don't be old fashioned. Be updated. Be
contemporary. Be a 'bad' guy. Be the social and outing type.

(F) Freedom: Loosen up. Don't take the relationship as bondage. Take
it as something worth enjoying. It's simply a responsibility every man
will face.


THINGS TO WORRY LESS ABOUT WHEN YOU NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A LADY
(1)Don't worry much about what your parents would say.
Once a reasonable guy is above the age of twenty, his parents should
not restrain him from being in a relationship.
African parents are so 'poky'; always poking their nose into the
private affairs of their grown up kids. At a time, I understood that
parents who interfere with their grown up kids' love lives are parents
whose own love lives are sour. It's a case of jealousy here.

(2)Don't worry if your elder brothers or your friends would have loved
to be-friend the lady.
Just do your own part in making the lady become your's. For the fact
both of you are already in the process, she will continue to see you
as the 'one'.

(3)Don't worry if strings are attached or not.
Don't bother if you ignored her at the beginning when she tripped for you.
Don't bother if she used to see you as ''too religious''
Don't bother if you are not financially buoyant.
Don't bother if you are a small fry
Don't bother about your family problems and background.
Just free yourself, be silly, be daring, be careless, be stubborn, and
be naughty.
Go for her if you want her to be yours.


''Winning the heart of a lady is a competition because other guys may
also wish to have her. But the competition is a game you can win
provided you already have something in common with her, and also doing
your best to make her yours''



Written by: Winston Oge "Winny Greazy"

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Here is the order and hierarchical setting of the pastoral levels; and
the key positions and titles of office holders in the Anglican
Communion.

STATION
A Station is a church not yet up to a level to be called a parish.
It's presided over by either of the following

(1) CHURCH TEACHER
POST: Church teacher,
DUTY: Postulant
DUTY TITLE: ---
TITLE: Teacher
A church teacher is appointed into his post

(2) CATECHIST
POST: Catechist
DUTY: Postulant
DUTY TITLE: ---
TITLE: Teacher
A catechist is appointed into his post

(3) STATION PRIEST
POST: Priest
DUTY: Vicar
DUTY TITLE: ---
TITLE: Reverend
A priest is ordained into his post


PARISH
A Parish is a church that has different stations under it. A Parish is
presided over by either of the following

(1) PARISH PRIEST
POST: Parish Priest
DUTY: Vicar
DUTY TITLE: ---
TITLE: Reverend
A priest is ordained into his post

(2) ASSITANT PARISH PRIEST
POST: Parish Priest
DUTY: Curet
DUTY TITLE: ---
TITLE: Reverend
A Priest is ordained into his post

(3) CANON
POST: Canon/Parish Priest
DUTY: Vicar
DUTY TITLE: Canon
TITLE: Reverend Canon
A Canon is installed into his post


ARCHDEACONRY
Archdeaconry is a church that has different Parishes under it. An
Archdeaconry is presided over by either of the following

(1) ARCHDEACON
POST: Archdeacon
DUTY: Vicar
DUTY TITLE: ---
TITLE: Venerable
An Archdeacon is collated into his post

(2) ASSITANT PRIEST
POST: Priest
DUTY: Curet
DUTY TITLE: ---
TITLE: Reverend


DIOCESE
The headquarters of a diocese is known as the Cathedral. A Diocese has
different Archdeaconries under it.
The cathedral is presided over by the following

(1) DEAN OF THE CATHEDRAL
POST: Dean
DUTY: Curet
DUTY TITLE: Dean
TITLE: Very Reverend
A dean is appointed into his post

(2)BISHOP
POST: Bishop
DUTY: The Diocesan
DUTY TITLE: Lord, his Lordship
TITLE: Rt. Reverend
A bishop is consecrated into his post


PROVINCE
A province has different Dioceses under it. The headquarters of a
province is known as the Provincial Cathedral.
The Provincial Cathedral is presided over by the following

(1) ARCHBISHOP
POST: Archbishop
DUTY: The Archbishop
DUTY TITLE: Grace, His Grace
TITLE: Most Reverend
An Archbishop is elected into his post


THE ANGLICAN COMMUNION
All the Provinces are under the Anglican Communion. It is presided
over by the following

(1)PRIMATE
POST: Primate
DUTY: The Primate
DUTY TITLE: Grace, His Grace
TITLE: Most Reverend
A Primate is elected into his post


In the Anglican Communion, we have groups that make up the three houses:

(A) The house of Bishops
-Bishops
-Arch Bishops

(B) The house of Clergies
-The priests
-The canons
-The Archdeacons
-The Deans

(C)The house of Laities
-The knights
-The legal
-The Church teachers
-The Catechists
-The lay readers
- The congregation


NOTE the following:

(1) In the Anglican Church system, you do not use the term
'Promotions', you use "Preferment"
(2)A Bishop "reigns"; he does not "rule"
(3)A bishop is "translated"; not "transferred"
(4)A chaplain is the personal assistant priest to the Bishop.
(1) Think about ''a partner that can make you stand out''
A partner whose physical appearance or internal behavior makes you stand out in the society is the best partner for you.
It's not easy to stand out from your mates, your rivals, your competitors, your enemies; it's not easy.
Once you are able to always stand out amongst your mates and rivals, they will always respect you as a great man. Apart from the respect, you will always have an internal confidence that will empower you to succeed more and more in every business of life.
The more you have the power to succeed, the more you love your partner whose outstanding appearance and behavior gave you that power. And the more you love this partner of yours, the more your married life gets lovely.
Think about a partner who can make you stand out. Examine and then find out that thing you need to stand out from your equals and rivals; and then look for a partner that has it. When you get a partner that has it, I doubt you would let that partner go.

(2) Think about ''a partner you can tolerate his/her ugly side''
Every individual has two sides, the good and the ugly sides.
The ugly side of an individual is that part of their behavior or appearance that does not please the people around them.
If you can tolerate the ugly side of your partner, then he or she is your perfect partner.
The major reason why marriages fail today is the inability of anyone to tolerate the flaws of their partners.
The lack of understanding that every individual has flaws no matter how good they may appear to be also adds to the reasons why marriages fail.
Once you understand your partner's misbehaviors and then have the ability to tolerate them, your marriage will keep moving smoothly and lovely.

(3) Think about ''a partner that can give you the kind of kids you'll wish to produce''
The more you love your kids, the more you love your partner; and consequently the more you'll love your marriage to your partner.
How lovely your kids are will determine how lovely your marriage will be.
When your kids are handsome, beautiful, good looking, intelligent, clever, smart and wonderful, you will tend to love and cherish your partner who helped you in getting those kids. The love for the kids and the love between the parents make the marriage get lovely.
Children in a family are the extension of joy and fulfillment to their parents especially when they are wonderful.
Offsprings are a reflection of their parents, and once these offsprings look good, the parents will tend to love themselves and each other more and more; this will make the marriage get lovelier.
Let the partner you want to marry be the type of kids you'll love to have.
Any kind of kids you wish to produce, look out for them in the person you'll want to make your partner.
Any type of kid you wish to have is the type of partner you'll have to marry.
The kind of kids one produces is equal to the kind of partner they get married to.
Offsprings are genetic replicates of their parents. If you need beautiful kids, you have to look out for a beautiful partner. If you need intelligent kids, you will also have to look out for an intelligent partner.
Your kids are as a result of you and your partner's physiological and morphological interaction.
Good looking kids make the parents look good too. And once a family is filled with good looking and wonderful children, the family itself and the marriage there in will look lovely.

(4) Think about ''a partner that has common aims and goals with you''
It's very lovely to have a partner who you have in common some reasoning, ideas and lifestyle, aims and objectives.
This creates team work which consequently fosters togetherness and loveliness. It will make your marriage get lovely because both of you will always be involved in common wholesome thoughts and actions geared at a common objective.
Another reason why marriages break up today is because of the emergence of a situation where each of the partners involved get filled with thoughts and views that are different from that of the other partner. Once this situation arises, there will no longer be uniformity of the heart. Marriage is a thing of the heart.
So, the more you stay together, have one mind, think and work towards a common goal; the more lovely your marriage will get.

(5)Think about ''a partner that can help you fulfill your destiny''
When you marry a partner that will help you achieve your goal in life, I don't think you'll let that partner go.
You'll tend to love her more and more. This helps your marriage to her to get lovely.
Any factor that facilitates your reach to your destiny, no doubt is your best factor in life.
Any partner that helps you fulfill your destiny is the best partner for your marriage.

(6) Think about ''a partner whose partnership with you is more of business and romance''
Being in business is one of the best things of life.
Being in romance with a partner is also one of the best things of life.
Both business and romance in marriage is very important - when romance fades, business fuels it up; and when business fades, romance fuels it up.
Business in a marriage is when both partners have a steady career, a firm source of income, a commitment, a responsibility, a business minded heart.
Romance in a marriage is when both partners have optimum love for each other; when they always feel, touch, caress and hunger for each other.
Both business and romance are the key ingredients that spice up marriage.
If your marriage with your partner is filled with business and romance, it will get lovely. Both of you will tend to always love each other.

(7) Think about ''a partner that has what turns you on the most'' Love is simply the attraction to someone who has what you need. As long as the person has what you need, you will always love and cherish them.
When your partner has what turns you on, it will be hard to forget him/her. You will always love to stick with him/her. This will make your marriage to him/her get lovely.
Now, on your own part, you need to sincerely find out what turns you on the most; then look for a partner that has it.

(8) Think about ''a partner who is a husband/wife material''
We have a 'husband material'; a 'wife material' (funny expressions); but, they are real. A husband material is a man that has many qualities of a good husband. A wife material is a woman that has many qualities of a good wife.
What are those qualities? You need to find out and then look for partner that has them.
Once the qualities are in place in a marriage, the marriage will get lovely.

(9) Think about ''a partner that always looks good, even in default conditions''
Default condition is a situation when one exhibits their natural behavior when unchallenged, when not under reflex, or when not with a purpose.
Ladies often look good and beautiful when they wear 'make up'; but naturally, without the 'make up' will they look beautiful?
Men often appear gentle when in midst of ladies; but naturally, are they gentle?
These are the things you need to find out about a partner before you marry them.
Look out for a partner that has a good lifestyle in default conditions. Partners that pretend to look good just for a purpose is not the right partner for marriage.
Men, take note:
You can find the best shaped girl when she is in a cooperate outfit.
You can find the most naturally beautiful girl just before she is about to take her morning bath; i.e. after her morning chores, or before make up.
For a fair in complexion girls, you can find a truly fair girl when she is putting on a dull colored cloth; or after she has stood under the sun for a long time.

(10) Think about ''a partner that can be your friend''
Two good intimate friends are better than a married plain 'non-lovely' couple.
Friendship is simply an understanding between partners. Friendship is a proof that both partners are easily merged together, with no strings attached.
Friendship reduces differences.
You have to get a partner that can be your friend. Friendship will help both of you to understand your differences and then harmonize them. It will also make you feel free to relate with your partner anyhow you wish. This relationship will help to build confidence and trust; and consequently, it makes marriage get lovely.



Written by: Winny Greazy

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When you are stuck and cannot continue to write, take these approaches below;

FIRST APPROACH

(1)Stop work on that particular piece or project you have  already started writing.

(2)Start planning on a new one to write.
Writer's block may not be the lack of inspiration and flow of idea to complete or produce a work; it may simply be a call on you to calm down, take a break, have a re-think and produce another thing even greater.

(3)Embark on the new one fully.
The new project can serve as a gateway in completing the former. It can have a singular idea or inspiration that will ignite the flow of ideas for the former

(4)Continue with the new one fully while revisiting the former intermediately.

(5)Share ideas derived from both with both

(6)Work on both hand in hand

(7)Now you have a choice to either face one squarely and finish it, or continue with both hand in hand


SECOND APPROACH

(1)Take the situation as if nothing happened. Assume you needed a little break in writing that project and certainly the break came.
Sometimes the best way to enjoy, feel the fun of a process, and then complete it is to take a break in it.

(2)Go back to your source of idea.
Your source of idea is the foundation of your project. If it's firm, your project's continuity will be firm.
Revisit the activities that shaped that idea. Check the characters that were involved in the activities. Recollect your mood when the activities occurred. Trace how the idea accumulated. Examine how you developed it fully. Then, link all these stages and processes to the point where you were stuck; take the link further to the point you proposed your project would end. At this stage, you might be able to identify what really went wrong and caused you to get stuck.

(3)Brainstorm on the concluding part of the project.
Since it seems you are stuck trying to get to the conclusion, why not abandon this obstinate stage and start thinking about the conclusion itself?
Sometimes, the end of a process is a means to its beginning.
Working on the conclusion may precipitate the intermediates that formed it.

(4)Be yourself and tell yourself the truth.
Some conditions cause writer's block. They include
-distraction by other events
-depression
-physical illness
-poor nutrition
-financial issues
-marital issues
-fear of failure
-pressure from audience
-pride from previous success
-overconfidence
-intimidation by rivals
All these tend to block inspirations, flow of idea, strength and willingness to continue writing.
Find out the one you are suffering from and take care of it.

(5)Make writing routine.
If you make writing an integral part of your day, then every day will take care of you from what you have written out of it.
Every day will serve as a driving force for you to write more. There will be nothing like writer's block.

(6)Create a good understanding between yourself and your audiences.
Your audiences will tend to either discourage you from writing or mount pressure on you to write more.
Don't let this happen. Let them understand how you work.

When you are stuck and cannot continue to write, take the approaches above.


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A lady you still love somuch after she has thoroughly satisfied your sexual urge is your wife.

For you to still love her after all the sex romp, it means she has something else in her that you still love somuch.
That is to say that sex is not love.
Love is beyond sex.
Sex is just situated on the way to love; it is that which you will (if you wish to) pass through to reach love.

Love lies in the heart and in the mind of a lady.
Love lies in the cells and in the bone marrows of a lady.
This love is the force you cannot understand why, when and how it pulls you to the lady.

For you to love someone, it means you are being unknowingly attracted to them. It is that force of love that attracts you to them.

For you to still love a lady after you have had sex with her, it means you met sex and passed it by on your way to reach the lady's love.

Sex has its properties which are facial beauty, slender body, sexy shape, big boobs, kissable lips, nice dentition, attractive complexion, photogeny, cat walk, nice hairstyle, sexy voice, good height and 'hotness'.

Love also has it's properties and they are; prudence, care, thoughtfulness, understanding, trust, faithfulness,good home management, tolerance, loyalty, righteousness, and so on.

Properties of sex are more of physical, While that of Love are more of internal.
That's why you are told earlier that love is found in the inside.
It lies in the heart and in the mind.
It lies in the cells and in the bone marrows.

If you get through with sex and still able to love your lady, then she can be your wife. This means she has those properties of love in her, and you have seen them.
Those properties of love are the main ingredients that spice up marriage. They are the key to everlasting married life. They are the foundation of love. They are love. They remain evergreen even after sex and its properties have faded away.

So if after you slept with a lady and you notice that the level of love you have for her is on the high side, marry her; she is your wife.


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Unity is simply the state of being united or joined as a whole.
It is the state or quality of being one.

Unity is a central part of any assemblage that draws every other parts towards it. It is the wheels on which these other parts rotate.
Unity is a centrifugal force that pushes away every other element revolving about it whenever it weakens.
Unity creates a relationship, wholeness and agreement.
It establishes a concord in a disorganized situation.

Unity affects us spiritually, mentally and physically. It is not just a concept, it is a feeling. It is an impulse that goes down well into us to cause an accomplishment.
We feel fulfilled when unity keeps us.
We live in harmony when unity is our company.
We work in synergy when unity drives us.
We have confidence in one another when unity is our most cherished asset.
The psalmist said in psalm 133:1: ''Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!''
Another saying has it that: ''coming together is a beginning, keeping together is progress, and working together is success''

Dearly beloved;
there is encouragement in unity,
there is commitment in unity,
there is dedication in unity,
there is love in unity,
there is joy in unity,
there is understanding in unity
there is progress in unity,
there is strength in unity, and
there is beauty in unity.

In a day like this and other days to come, let us ask for one thing; a state of being in agreement and wholeness; that's Unity!

For our orientation camps, let us ask for unity in diversity of our tribes and native backgrounds.

For our nation let us ask for the unity that draws its riches from the diversity of natural resources in the land; the unity that draws its strength from the variety of mother tongues of the lovely people; the unity that is refreshed by the tropical rainforest of the South, watered by the tropical savanah of the West, brightened by the sahel savanah of the North and nutured by the mild climate of the East.

In our families, let us ask for the unity that neutralizes all forms of unfaithfulness, lack of trust and untruthfulness.

In everything we do, let us ask for unity in us.
Amen!


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This article is for platoon 9, Bacth B, 2014 NYSC service year. (Nigeria)


Written by Winston oge (Winny Greazy)
Some people do say ''if you are a civil servant, you cannot write a screenplay''. This is a lie!

Some others do ask, ''If you are a scientist, how on earth can you do an art work such as screen writing?"
The answer is; it is very possible on earth!

Many do think that once you are into something that takes your whole day, you cannot be into another thing that takes your whole mind.

It's possible to combine your normal daily office work with script writing.
All you have to do is:

-streamline your thoughts

-focus on the two; your work and script writing

-imagine and accept both as though they are in the same discipline of study

-share ideas in both

-use an idea from one to solve a problem in the other

-combine the two in one timetable and schedule

-make them of equal priorities

-write a screenplay about the work

-generate ideas and concepts for each, and from each

-determine to make money from both

-teach both to people

-include both professionally in your business profile and CV

-discard other money making ventures, and focus on both

-be determined to carry on with the both

-keep moving

-be perfect in both!

Now you can blend your career with script writing.



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How to date a girl without spending so much money

(1) Date a girl who leaves within.
Proximity helps you reduce the cost of keeping up your relationship with your girl friend.
The main aim of having a girl friend is to have a partner who will always be there whenever you need her. If she doesn't live within, you may have no other option than to always invite her specially to keep you company. And consequent to this, you will always have to spend much money on her transport fares, grand reception and hospitality.

(2) The family should be an average family.
A girl from a poor family will love to be your girl friend basically to earn money from you. Her family is poor, and her dad or mum, or the elder brother will not be financially disposed to endow her with the materials she needs to keep up to her fellow female peers, and the stylish moments in vogue.
An average family is a family that is not very rich, it's just moderate.
A girl from an average family is more often than not in a relationship to have a full experience of it, rather than for money solely. Her family can equip her with the material things she needs so she will not desperately depend on you.

(3) Do not meet her during a shopping spree.
You already know the girl you want to date and the next action is to meet her and ask her to be your friend. Now, If you must take this next action, be sure not do it during a shopping excitement; else she may believe and even be convinced that you are the type that always go on shopping.
Again, do not meet her during an extravaganza.
Meet her during plain occasions or in ordinary events like wedding ceremonies, church service, football match, lecture free period, snack bar, at the hostel e.t.c.

(4) Do not be in a hurry to have her phone number.
Ask for her address instead. Asking for her phone number in a hurry may confirm to her you are too desperate to get her. She may 'open an office' on you, and sending her S.I.M recharge vouchers will now be frequent.
But if you ask for her address, she will note you as a more responsible person who can go extra step for family acquaintances, and consequently marriage. Hence, there may be no need for her to start demanding her own material finances.

(5) Visit her house.
Just like in number four (4) above, if you visit her house whenever you want to see or hear from her, you will not spend. Rather she will be the one to spend. She will have to present kola nut to you.

(6) Let her people know you.
Still like in (4) and (5) above, her parents might eventually turn to be the ones spending and caring for you. They now see you as a responsible man who is brave enough to bring to limelight what he craves for; their daughter.

(7) Have an apartment of your own.
If you do not have at least a room of your own, you may end up with no privacy whenever your girl visits. Or worse still, you may end up paying money to secure a hotel accommodation to obtain the desired privacy.

(8) Let your first date be casual.
Do not go to big restaurants. Do not go shopping. Do not place very pleasant and extraordinary orders. Just take a walk with her, stroll around, watch club football match, walk into a soft drinking spot and have a chilled bottle of her favorite soft drink. Let her hear what you have got to tell her. Let her know what's on your mind about her. Just make everything about this casual. It will help you save some money.

(9) Do not let your first impression at her be a gift or a present.
First impression lasts longer. And if you shower her with presents, you may be forced to keep on doing it. It was your first impression, and again, first impression lasts longer. The girl will now be expecting presents every time.

(10) Do not discuss about material things.
Do not talk about rich and fancy people, events and things.
Such discussion will make her think you belong to the 'A' list category, or that you are connected to them. It will make her too hopeful of your becoming rich in no distant time. She will eventually be forced to start asking you for big money.

(11) Talk about 'you and her', and 'the very good possibilities of being together without troubles'.
Let your discussions be an intimate one. Let it be filled with heart and soul.
This will help her develop cold feet in asking you for 'big money'.

(12) Do not discuss your lofty dreams.
Do not tell her you are awaiting something big. If you do, she will also be awaiting huge spending on her.

(13) Do not discuss your past rich exposures.
She will think the fortunes you acquired still remains. She will start asking for it.

(14) Handle your costly belongings adorably.
Guard them jealously, though not offensively. This will make her believe you worked so hard to get them. She will not think you are the type that has so much money to spend easily on costly materials.

(15) Do not crack expensive jokes.
An expensive joke is usually connected to affluence. If you want to save yourself some money, then stick to mild heart-felt jokes.

(16) Value whatever thing she has; whether valuable or not.
If you do otherwise, then you must provide her with things you feel that are valuable.
Just accept her simple nature else, you will need to pay for her upgrade.

(17) Do not always forbid non colorful things or events that happen around you.
If she finds out you are a lover of colorful events, she will always expect you to make your own events colorful too.

(18) Bargain for prices maturely.
Don't be shy. Just try and bargain for prices of commodities and services whenever you are demanding for them together with her. A girl is likely to note a man that does such as a prudent person. If she believes you are prudent, then you are safe to always save some money for yourself.
Example: As you are going out with her, if you stop a taxi cab, bargain the fare maturely.
Note: Do not over do this, lest she calls you stingy.

(19) Always look just and responsible.
Always dress smartly, talk mildly, be modest, be truthful, be faithful, have an understanding. Most importantly, work hard to earn good money.


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"it shall be well", "in my next world", "till we meet again", "in the end, all will be fine; if it's not fine now then it's not the end"
All these expressions we use every day may indicate reincarnation.
Well, we all strongly believe all will be well indeed. We believe every unpleasant situation will change for good. We believe hardship and poverty will one day change to happiness. And we also believe one day we shall all just live without dying.
So when are all these changes going to take place?
Things are still going wrong, poverty is in the increase and people are still dying.

Away from this for now, you need to understand first of all what life is all about.

THE HUMAN LIFE:

TWO (2) things make up the human life

(1) PHYSICAL BODY
The physical body is the physical and genetic makeup of the human life.
It's just the way a human appears physically.
The parents are responsible for this. The parents create this physical body. These parents mate; and then through series of transformations, the female parent reproduces to create the body which looks like the male parent, female parent, or both; in appearance.
But certain features must obviously make it the either of the sexes; that is being male or female.
Those features include the type of reproductive organ, hormonal secretion pattern e.t.c.

(2) SPIRITUAL SOUL
The spiritual soul is the 'life' of the physical body.
The physical body doesn't function unless this spiritual soul enters into it and becomes part of it.
The soul takes up this physical body's organs, makes them perform the functions for which they are created; the nose for smell, the eyes for sight, the tongue for taste, brain for reasoning, e.t.c.
The soul makes its creation complete by diffusing into it and transforming it into a human life just seconds after it has been produced; else it will remain lifeless and decompose after some hours.
The creator of this soul is the God almighty himself.
Body and Soul interaction:

The soul makes its way into the physical body just as the body comes forth into existence through the female parent; i.e. at birth of the body, which will be either male or female.
If the soul doesn't do its job, the body will have no life. Humans call this 'still birth'.
When the body was in its female parent's enclosure, it shared its female parent's soul. This sharing is through some connections between it and the female parent. Humans call one of these connections, 'placenta'.
At this interaction with it and the female parent, it had a little life that allowed it to form its full body. On living the parent's enclosure, it awaits a soul for its own life. If a soul helps it, it lives. But if a soul doesn't help, it becomes lifeless.

Souls which can be feminine or masculine are indestructible. They belong to the almighty God.
The aim of creation of these souls by God almighty is for the souls to interact with the physical bodies created by existing human life (parents), to produce a human life.
Now, God wants this human life produced to always reverence and worship him. But then, he doesn't want it to be corrupt.

The body is always obeying its parents who created it physically, thus tending to mundaneness. This brings about materialism and committing sins.
The soul is always obeying the almighty God who created it spiritually, thus tending to good morals.
It's the duty of the soul to keep the body in the good track. If the body sins, the soul has sinned automatically.

Now that the soul belongs to the almighty God, its creator; it must return to him in purity. If anything is short of this, it must remain and keep on interacting with different bodies until it's able to control a body, make the body righteous and itself be transformed into purity; and then it may be worthy to return to its creator.

This series of changes in the relationship of a soul and a body in which the soul interacts with a body and then from that body to another (with the aim of the soul being transformed), after which these different bodies may have died successively, is the bases of reincarnation.

The soul and the body are always in an interaction provided they are together to bring about a human life.
For them to be in interaction, it means there will always be an inequality.
The soul merges its functionality with that of the body.
The functionality of the soul is controlled by its activities from the past human life it reincarnated from.
Its aim is always about transformation; and because of this, it will tend to avoid certain mistakes it made from its last interaction with the body which made up that human life.
It will also tend to initiate some changes that will help it take control of the body it's currently in interaction with, in order to attain its desire; transformation.

Meanwhile, the functionality of the body is controlled by the physical and genetic combination from its parents.
The both parents have different body existences that they combine through mating to produce the body which will now posses its own unique type of existence.
The body is more of physical; so all it does is to enjoy physical pleasures, and then detests pains.

The differences in all these aims and functions of both the soul and the body bring about struggles between them.
The struggle is all about: 'who gets what it wants?'

The soul gets into the body upon the body's birth, and all the soul knows is that it has gotten into a physical body, therefore let human life begins.
Now, not every soul knows exactly the kind or model of the physical body it's entering into.

A feminine soul can enter into a male body. In this case, the human life here will be that of a man who behaves like or has the characteristics a woman. Humans may call him a 'gay' or whatever.
So also, a male soul can enter into a female body. In this case, the human life here will be that of a woman who behaves like or has the characteristics a man.

There is a case where the love or hate of a soul towards the body it's in interaction with grows.
Its love can grow when the physical appearance of that body is beautiful.
This beauty in appearance may include: handsomeness of the male body, beauty and slenderness of the female body, good height, dexterity, fitness e.t.c
Its love can also grow when the background or environment in which the body situates is interesting.
This may include; intelligence, affluence, neatness, probity, honesty, good health e.t.c.
All these qualities are brought about by the parents who produced the body.
But in the absence of all these good qualities, the hate of the soul towards the body may be higher.

The soul may think about leaving the body if almost everything about the body is no longer favourable.
The background or environment and physical appearance of the body has to be pleasing, or else the soul despises it more.

A prolonged presence of this situation may lead to a resolution by the soul to abandon the body and look for a better one. This is where 'one thinks of committing suicide'.

On the other hand, a soul may work very hard to ensure it retains its stay in the body it's in interaction with.
This situation arises if most things about the body; ranging from its physical appearance, to its background is beautiful.
Here, the human life takes absolute care of itself to make sure its life continues.
It avoids accidents that may dismantle its beauty and goodness.
It enjoys most things about it and thus loves its living.

Still on this, there are ways the soul can leave the body. It can do so deliberately or mistakenly.

For deliberate, it can be through suicide.
For mistake, it can be through accident, illness and carelessness.

This carelessness can be brought about by another human life where for instance the human who is a driver of a bus well loaded with passengers loses control and crashes everybody to death.

But the most important thing is that when the soul leaves the physical body, it reincarnates into another body to form another human life.

Another important thing is that the soul belongs to the Almighty God.
Its successive reincarnation is to attain a transformation into righteousness in order to go back to its owner.
That is to say, it must be transformed; and therefore, it must reincarnate.

An important issue for the Christians is that Jesus Christ's soul entered into the physical body made by Mary through the Holy Spirit.
After Jesus' death; through the Holy Spirit again, that physical body was destroyed.
Then Jesus' soul ascended into heaven.
Jesus lived a good life while on earth, so his soul went back to God.
If he had lived a bad life, he would have reincarnated.



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No dream is a nightmare.

Dream is a simple reaction by the mind to what it has inside of it.

Are you a young man who goes to bed and seldom has a dream in which unidentified men chase you to kill you?
Do you dream where you are swimming in a pool of water, and then you believe the devil is at work?
Do you have sex in your dream?
Do you dream where you are eating some delicious food; and then you claim your enemy is attempting to poison you, or you are being initiated into a secret cult?
Do you dream about someone you know; and then after few days, coincidentally, the person dies; and then you become worried that once you dream about anyone, he or she dies?
Has someone ever let you understand that some certain signs you see in your dreams denote some certain evils that will befall upon you? Or that some certain activities you partake in your dream are indications that your enemies are getting at you?
Has that person gone farther to list the various kinds of foods you should eat or avoid in your dream? Or inform you the kind of pool of water you swim in or avoid?
Whether yes or no to all the above questions, you have to be objective and ready to understand that dream is just a dream.

Dream is a relay of series of thoughts from your mind about all the physical activities you experienced live.
It is a manifestation by the mind of what you think about, what you wish for, what you imagine, your feelings and body responses. It's about the people you have ever seen or had business with.
It's what you have heard, seen, felt, tasted, perceived. It's where you have visited, lived, worked. It's the people you've seen, talked with, hugged, kissed, slept with, and played with. It's the food you have eaten, cooked. It's the games you've played, seen, won. It's the business you've had, participated in. It's whatever you've had. It's everything you've ever experienced.

The mind keeps the memories of all these. At some particular time of your life and at a particular time of the day, perhaps when the body is at rest or sleeping; the mind remains active and relays these memories to you through dream.
It combines all of these in such a way you may find it difficult to analyze them or find out they are the thoughts and memories that have been in your mind. It only takes a very articulate person, who is conscious enough in noting some of his live activities to do that.

The two major elements in a dream are;
-the environment (setting)
-humans (characters)
Other elements include other living and non living objects.

All these elements are the people, places and things you have seen, been to, wished for, thought of or imagined; as mentioned earlier.
Dream is in such a way that it combines all of these elements in a random manner, but yet passing a particular massage.

The mind is ever active. It's full of thoughts when you are awake. It's also full of thoughts when you are asleep; but here, it's in another form which is dream.

Now; knowing full well what dream is all about, we can further study it as a concept.
Here; we can highlight the characteristics, types, aims and uses of dreams.

CHARACTERISTICS OF DREAM

Dream has no manipulation

Dream is what it is. You cannot say it's not what it is. All the mind does is to keep on manifesting all the thoughts, feelings and memories in it. By so doing, it passes across a message which is relayed to you.
What a dreamer now does after he would have woken up is to try and recall his dream.
The message a dream passes cannot be manipulated. You may think it has a particular meaning, whereas its original meaning is far from yours.

You keep on dreaming about a particular stage in your life where the roles you played were very significant. Perhaps it was a stage which partly contributed to what you are right now. Perhaps it was also a stage that was supposed to make or mar your future.
In this stage, you worked hard to attain some level of integrity which would help protect yourself and your success as you move further in life. You used every available resource to make sure you achieved this.
Now, nobody can claim to be meticulous enough to avoid mistakes. People make mistakes knowingly or unknowingly. They may not even notice it until they move a little further above that stage.
This is where regrets set in. Now in this present time, you would wish you had put everything in order then. At every moment, you would remember those mistakes you made and you would be nostalgic about the whole situation. You are not happy because in one way or the other, it has had some effects on your future; which is this present time.
You will not be fulfilled and you will keep on thinking about it.
Everybody is concerned about their future. Their minds are also always on their future.
As you remember that stage when the mistakes were made, your mind will feel those nostalgic feelings. And then through dream, it will relay them to you.
If that stage you made those mistakes was perhaps in your high school or college or your former work place, the mind will always relay it to you using that setting (i.e. that environment).
You may be worried and you may always try to find out why you always dream about that setting.
The answer is simple. The dream is sending you a message that you were not fulfilled by your deeds when you were there in that setting. That's just the fact.
Dream is not an abstract thing. It works in response to the things you feel in yourself. It is part of you. It is part of the inner you. It corresponds to the things you did, the things you are doing, and the things you want to do. The mind is always there to feel what is in you, and the best way to let you see them is through dreams.

Again, there is this issue a reader raised about a dream where she was shot on the leg by a policeman and on waking up, she had a dislocation on that spot she was shot in that dream.

Now the thing here is that this dislocation is not as a result of that dream. Yes it's not! It's just not! Don't apply superstition to your dreams.
The bones in your leg are already at a point of being dislocated. This dislocation state is now rather the cause of your dream. Remember your mind is still active even if you are sleeping.
You may have during the day had an activity that would warrant that dislocation. The dislocation may not have manifested immediately. It's a biological process, and biological processes take time to fully manifest.
Now as you sleep, you stretch your legs to every direction on the bed. Yes, you should stretch yourself; to have a sleep is to have a good rest; you have to feel free, relax and stretch yourself.
So in the process of stretching your leg, the full dislocation condition may be initiated. Once it initiates, your mind would have started feeling it. Your mind will now be on it. This process will trigger a dream. You will now have a dream about a scene in a particular setting (which will be an environment you had ever seen) with some characters (who will include people you have seen before) who will perform an action that will land on that leg. This action may be shots from a gun, knock from the police baton, and painful pressure from a stick or whatever. You may feel the pain and as a result, you will wake up suddenly.
Before this point, the full course of the dislocation process has manifested physically.
So this dream is just a means by which the mind registers to you that something has happened to your leg.
After you wake up, you will now start feeling the pain; this is the dislocation.
Do not be afraid. It's not the dream that caused it. It's the pain that caused the dream.
Dream has a co relation to the physical life. The mind is the intermediate. Messages are relayed. Don't get the message twisted. Just study your life and your daily activities, and then you may understand and elucidate your dreams.

Dream requires a code

There are always many thoughts running in your mind. This brings about more than one dream. Each dream represents each of those thoughts.
It's often not so easy to remember vividly all the dreams you had in the night. But if you manage to do this, (off course you have to try and remember) you will find out it's in a particular sequence based on your thoughts.
There could appear a mix up of the settings, objects or the humans.
One of the dreams can use one setting to manifest more than one thought from your mind. It will be in such a way the messages about the thoughts in the mind which the mind itself wants to relay will happen in a setting. This means that several scenes will be seen in that particular environment or setting.

The first scene will be of the first message about the first thought. The characters and other objects pertaining to this particular thought will be seen, and all the activities about it will take place.
From that scene, it shifts to another scene with its related characters and objects pertaining to the second thoughts which will now have its message relayed.
After this second scene, it can move to the third scene.
All these take place in that one setting and they are in line with those various thoughts in the mind.

There is also another case where the characters which are originally in the thoughts of the mind can change during this message relay.
A character may stand in for another which is the main character you had in mind before you went to bed.
This character that stands in for another will just relay the same message as though it was that one you originally had in mind.
This character still, is not just a character from nowhere. It is a character you have ever seen or had a relationship with in real life. Remember nothing passes by the mind. The mind is recording everything even without your permission to it.
So here the mind makes this character to stand in for the original one.

Certain other things may change too; the objects and other elements.
These other elements may include the subject of the issue.
If it was a "marriage issue" you discoursed with your "friend"; during the dream, your mind may change your "friend" and "the marriage issue" into, say, your "mother" and "family issue".
One thing is sure here; the mind will not change the message and the central lesson you supposed to learn from that discursion. What your "friend" was advising you about "marriage" will be very closely related to what your "mother" is advising you about "family". The mind knows fully the message you are supposed to get, so it relays it to you.
One thing you should know is that things change in the dream, but the central meaning of that dream never changes.
These are the things about dreams which will require you to code them.

Now these changes occur because of the many thoughts in your mind. The mind is very sensitive about the messages, but due to a lot of characters, settings, objects and other elements it has been exposed to in real life, it's bound to make a lot of changes in the dream.
Don't blame it. It's not easy to keep all these thoughts and then sequentially execute them.

Dream lingers

If you dream about one thing, there is very much of possibility you may dream of something relating to that again.
The relationship here is the message in the dream. The message in the first dream will be the same with the second dream. The settings can be the same, or it may change. So also the characters and other elements.
Dream lingers as the thoughts on that issue lingers. You think over an issue again and again, the dream about it may also come again and again.

Dream can be activated

A long time thought on something very important can be activated into a dream by a recent similar thought.
It's possible you think about a certain issue for a long time without dreaming about it. At a point you may stop thinking about it for a while. Any other subsequent thought on that certain issue may now result to a dream. The dream is activated by this recent thought from the earlier thought.
The incidence of this recent thought informs the mind which didn't bother producing a dream at the first incidence of this thought to now produce a dream.
May be at the first time, the mind didn't see the need for a dream. But on an emergence of the same thought again, the mind may now feel the need for a dream.
In other words, dream hooks on a very recent thought to relay a message on an earlier thought.
This is the way it gets activated.

TYPES OF DREAM

Complicated dream

This is as a result of varieties of thoughts, experiences, wishes, places, events, regrets, and so many other relationships you had earlier in that day, just that day. It can also not be just that day.
All these will form components of a setting created in the dream. The setting used will be one of the settings from one of the environments you saw live, earlier in that day.
At a time in the dream, the setting may change. This change in the setting will be to accommodate other components that cannot take place in the previous setting, i.e. the 1st setting.

This depends however on the deepness and length of your sleep. It's possible you may wake up and end a session of the dream, and then continue thereafter when you would have gone back to sleep.
The extent the components are going to appear in your dream will be determined by; how attached, how mindful, how passionately disposed, how worrisome, how enjoyable, how future molding, how deep is the wish, how thoughtful, how relating with the people you see in the dream, how these people you see in your dream affected your life, and how concerned you are to the thoughts.
A component may not be in your dream if you didn't care much about it, or if it was negligible in live, earlier that day.
Characters and other elements may also change. Infect, the whole dream sequence becomes so complicated in the since you will have to code.

Superimposed Dream

For a superimposed dream, a set of characters and other elements perform activities based on more than one thought in the mind.
This takes place in just a setting, but the different thoughts are represented. The activities of these characters that will relay messages about each of the thoughts will happen in parts.
This type of dream normally emerges when these characters are related to each of the thoughts that were in the mind.
The dream will take advantage of the "all character in one thought and setting" to relay its message at once.
It sees no need to change the setting or characters.
This can also be referred to as all in one dream.

Insightful dream

This could be an advantage from dream.
A dream can show you what you are likely to face in real life.
Everybody has an ambition. These ambitions always run through the mind as the mind thinks about them.
In the dream, characters and settings that are pertaining to that ambition will come up and then perform activities that will be directed to that ambition. Their activities may include; the way to go about the ambition, obstacles you may meet on the way to achieving the ambition, and the way to handle it if you eventually achieve it.

This activity of the characters will now serve as the message in the dream regarding the thoughts about that ambition. The message will now be relayed to you.
It's now left for you to analyze the whole dream sequence and pick some vital information which you need to go about your ambition.

This is also applied to a wish which you pray will come to pass one day.
Your dream can relay to you a message from which you can use to make that your wish come true. It will show you the insightful approach to use in order to make things work.

Incomplete dream

There is a kind of situation where the mind is not able to manifest a constant stream of dream sequence. The dream sequence is usually obstructed and as result, a complete message cannot be relayed.
This situation arises when you, the dreamer intermediately gain consciousness while sleeping. Dream and consciousness do not support each other. It's either your mind is doing the normal thinking when you are conscious, or it's in a dream sequence when you are not conscious.

This regain of consciousness is usually due to restiveness. May be you are being so much disturbed about worries in your life, or that your health condition is not stable.
It could also be that you are trying to be conscious of the time you will wake the next morning and as a result, you keep on monitoring.
As usual, your mind should produce or manifest a dream relating to those issues that are worrying you; but due to the fact you regain consciousness in regular intervals, it will be hard for it to do it the normal way. The dreams it will produce will be in fragments. They will be incomplete.

Plain dream

This is just the dream of the thoughts in your mind shortly before you sleep.
It's usually just the way you thought about it. Nothing much will change. The settings, the characters and all other elements will remain the same.

Here, the mind is not very active to start producing dreams from the earlier thoughts you had days back or hours back. It just relaxes itself and makes do with the very recent fresh thoughts.
This kind of dream may also be as a result of fatigue. May be you worked so hard during the day. You will feel tired to run your mind through past earlier thoughts. You will just be comfortable with the very present thought; the thought which enhance your quickness in falling asleep.

This present thought may be the thoughts about your colleagues at your work place that very day. It may also be a wish or a plan on avoiding certain mistakes that occurred in your office; or how to go about your business tomorrow.

USES OF DREAM

Reminder dream

Dream can serve as a reminder to something you have failed to remember.
The mind uses a dream from a different thought and relays a message that will be a factor in reminding you of a thought you have forgotten.
The activities of the characters in this dream will be that which will depict a little of the thought you have forgotten. They will give you a hint.

These thoughts you have forgotten could be knowledge about a situation, a skill at constructing a piece of anything, a means of achieving something and may be a plan on an action to take about something.

Dream as an alert

Apart from dream serving as a reminder, it can also issue an alert on some dangers associated with some decisions you make about your life. It does this simply by relaying to you a message.
As you have learnt, you will be given a hint from the activities that happen in your dream that a decision or a plan you have made could be dangerous or whatever. It's now left for you to have a re-think.

Away from the above and funny though, your dream can alert you on the state of the immediate environment you are sleeping in.
You may be dreaming of fire engulfing some parts of your house building; and then out fear about the dream, you wake up to see your house really on fire.
Another is that you may wake up and find out you urinated on your bed after dreaming of where you are urinating.

Dream can also detect your health condition.
This is possible in the sense you may be dreaming where you are just feeling sick and consequently taking drugs.
When you wake up, you may actually see yourself falling sick some hours later.
This is related to (RE: dream has no manipulation - bone dislocation condition) above where biology is taking its full course.

Dream as a warning

When dream serves as a reminder or an alert, it's earnestly sending you a warning about a planned action that may not be pleasant to you.

Dream predicts the future

Something you may encounter in hours or days coming can appear in your dream.
It's left for you to be ready for it. If it eventually occurs, fine. If it doesn't, fine too.
You have to be prepared about things that are likely to happen to your life.

OTHER NOTES ON DREAM

Dream can serve as an idea or a hint in solving your problems.
Any problem that you have been worried about can be half solved through your dream.
Dream can give you insight.

Dreams can also get you clearer pictures of whatever you are struggling with.
Here, anything you are struggling with is something that may make you live a better life. It could be a struggle to get a job, pass your exams, build your business, lead your followers, fix a problem, stay healthy, and many more.
These are always in your mind and your mind can manifest dreams that can relay a message to you on how to go about anyone of them. It's possible you can have a dream where you are fixing your damaged mobile phone. This is something you couldn't do before this dream.
In times of job search and interviews, your dream can provide you with scenario where you are in the interview section with your employers. This will give you more knowledge about the upcoming interviews.

Dream makes you feel things you liked, loved and thought about.
It tends to take you back to whatever good thing you saw, tasted, heard, or felt.
Let's assume you saw a beautiful hotel building on your way to your friend's native home, and you loved the building; there is a tendency you would dream about it. Not just dreaming about the building, but also dreaming where you are inside it having a nice time - out with your friends.

Dream can persuade you, urge you or advice you to do the right thing you have been avoiding.
Using some characters and settings, dream can let you know the importance of executing or not executing whatever work you have been reluctant to do.

Now back to the first question:
Are you a young man who goes to bed and seldom has a dream in which unidentified men chase you to kill you?

Answer:
Once a young man starts to be conscious of achieving success in life, he starts to be worried too.
He starts being worried about achieving it actually and avoiding anybody stopping him.
The mind is aware of this and it goes on manifesting dreams about his worries.

One of the ways of stopping him frankly is killing him. So every time, he becomes too careful in his dealings with his friends.
These friends of his are the young people like him, whom he will have to compete with as he is struggling to achieve the success.
These young people are the people he sees in his dreams. They look unidentified and sometimes look armed. They chase him to kill him.

If you are in such a situation, don't be afraid. Your mind is simply responding to your anxiety and the worries about achieving the success and becoming a man.
Mind you, this normally happens if you are too concerned about becoming what you want to become in life.
It appears this dream becomes incessant when you are so afraid of these young people you are going to compete with.

Dream is just a response of what's so much on your mind. It helps the mind to offload the numerous thoughts in it, and at same time may be warn you, show you, and refer you to a solution.

Trance is a manifestation by your mind where your mind is not patient enough to wait for you to sleep. Remember the mind has a lot of thoughts in it.

People take Trance as an important issue because Trance often enlightens and somehow informs them of the next thing that may happen to them.
The mind is powerful, isn't it?

No dream is a nightmare is a yet to be published book on everything you need to know about dreams. It points out different kinds of real dreams people have, and genuine analysis of these dreams.
Live interviews with different people of different sexes and of different ages have been conducted by the author himself, Winny Greazy; to ensure that proper analysis of the numerous types of dreams they have ever had is used to dissect and elucidate the concept of dream.
The author himself whom is also a screen writer has had a long time experience and close examination of dreams from his two years of painstaking close watch of his series of dreams.

Now, let's go back and examine the case of eating food in your dream.
Eating in your dream is as a result of some reasons;
-you went to bed hungry, and the biological processes involved in feeling the hunger sensation triggers the dream of you eating to fill yourself.
-there has been a type of food that has been on your mind.
-you have visited a place where a certain type of food is prepared.
-the food you cooked some time ago or hours before you go to bed was delicious or not.
-you were tired to cook and you went to a vendor, and yet you wished you cooked.
-there is a particular taste you had in a particular food you ate at a particular time.
Apart from the above,
-dream can serve to remind you of a type of food you have ever seen or eaten.
-you can see in a dream where the method of a particular food production is carried out; and many more. There are a lot of reasons.
There is nothing devilish about eating in a dream.

The yet to be published book; No dream is a nightmare, clearly explains the reason many things happen in a dream. You will be informed when it's ready.
The book treats with depth whatever you need to know about dreams. Some major topics include; Questions and answers about dreams, spirituality of dreams, body responses to dreams, formation of dreams, signs and codes for dreams, etc.
Meanwhile, you can ask questions in anything about dreams on the comment session.

Let's continue!
If you have sex in your dreams sometimes, it will be because of these reasons;
-you had sex with your partner and after that, the memory still lingered in your mind
-you fantasized about having a beautiful and romantic girlfriend
-you fantasized about having a very pleasurable sex with a girl
-you made a move to ask a girl out, or you actually asked her to be your girlfriend
-you discoursed about sex with your friends
-you were in lust for a girl
-you saw a sex movie
-it has been long you had sex
-your sex partner disappointed you after you waited for them
-you ate some kind of food or drug that boosts sexual activeness
-you have had sex so often
-you are having sex related problem. May be you are not sexually active, or your partner is complaining about you non performance
-you are doing a write up on sex
-you had a lecture on sex
-you were given an assignment to study the processes of sex

All these plus more others can make you dream of having sex.
But for you to dream of having sex, it will depend on how much you think about it i.e. how much deep is the thought in your mind.
Remember that sometimes, the character you may see in you dream i.e. the character you are having the sex with may change from whom you saw live.
The mind is much concerned about manifesting what's in it.


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You have many stories in your mind, and perhaps you do not have the time to write them down; or perhaps you do not know how to write them; or perhaps you do not know where to start writing them from; here are some tips for you.

1. Examine Yourself

You must be good at one thing. Your mind must always be inclined to one thing. There is always one thing which is in you and which you so much enjoy doing. There is one aspect of entertainment, writing or communication that you have fun engaging yourself in.
May be you love mimicking peoples' speeches. Or, may be, you are good at imaginations.
You can also be good at always writing about the things you see or feel.
Some people enjoy telling stories both fictitious and non fictitious.
Some other people enjoy watching movies, and criticizing those movies afterwards.
Again, some people are very good at correcting grammatical mistakes made by their friends or colleagues.
Some others love reading and acting what they have read.
Everybody loves doing one thing or the other which pertains to social activities.

In writing; if you truly love writing, you have to examine yourself and find out the aspect of writing you like and enjoy. Just be sincere to yourself. It is a personal and internal exercise.
If you are good in writing descriptions of things you see or things that happen around you, you can be a good novel writer.
If you are good in imaginations creating stories and scenes in your mind; stories and scenes that have characters, their actions and their speeches; then you can be a good script writer.
If you love criticizing and analyzing issues and events that happen around you, in your society, then you can be a good article writer.
If you always correct you friends whenever they make mistakes in grammar, then you can be a good teacher, and you can even write books.

Writing is all about the passion to make what you love doing, seeing and feeling come alive. It is an internal response to the external activities.
You can't just perceive things and then keep quite. You've got to say something about them. You've got to write about them.
Writers do write to teach, entertain, address issues and correct impressions.

So, find the aspect you can fit in and then start working on it immediately.

1. Create a Jotting Mode

Ideas about what to write usually come whenever you are not ready to jot them down. This is true because ideas come carelessly. They do not come in a complete form. They occur to you indistinctly and it is left for you to make them distinct by writing them down, and then subsequently develop them.
Ideas occur to you like a wave of air that is ready to fly away in the very second it occurs. If you do not hold it and harness it, then you may need to wait until another time it comes.
Ideas will make you uncomfortable as you will go on and on trying to remember them if you didn't put them down.

Now, since these ideas usually occur whenever you are too busy to jot them down, there is need for you to create and design a way of jotting them.

There are many ways and forms of jotting, but any one you choose will depend on your daily schedules and dispositions.
One can jot on the paper or on their electronic devices.
Jotting on the paper will entail you carrying your paper jotter everywhere you go. And when an idea comes, you quickly bring it out and then jot the idea down. How comfortable would this be for you?
May be if you are a teacher, cashier, office secretary, lawyer or you do any other job that allows you sit at your table from morning till evening; this form of jotting may favor you.
What of those who always move or travel from one point to another as part of their job?
The answer is that they will use their mobile phones or any other mobile electronic device for the jotting.

Well, it all depends on you. Just know how best you can put down your ideas as they occur. The most important thing is to put them down no matter where you are, or no matter when they occur. Do not let any of them slip off.

3. Break Your Stories Down

You chose screen writing and you have also found a manageable and reliable means of jotting the ideas about the stories and other elements of the screenplay down.
Now, you have recorded a lot of ideas, right? That's good. The next thing you need to do is to define these ideas, which would be 'story building ideas', and then categorize them into genres, themes, characters, locations, settings, days, years, seasons or time they are likely to happen. Every group will have the same thing in common.

4. Pick Out the Elements

In a particular group, you still need to create a sub group for the members of that group that have very close common features.
Check the elements that are very similar to one another. Themes that are very similar to one another should be in the same sub group. Characters that are very similar to one another should be in the same sub group; and so on. Just do same for all the original groups and their members.
The essence is to streamline the various different features so as to make the writing job easier.

5. Make the Exercise a Fun and a Habit

Try and be in it. Try and enjoy doing it. You can only write a good piece if and only if you can give yourself in to writing. Writing will always command you; just be ready to obey it. But the only way to be ready to obey it is by making it a habit, having fun with it, and then enjoying it.
I know you do have fun surfing the internet, facebooking, tweeting, pinging and chatting with your phone. Why not also transfer some of that fun to writing down ideas that occur to you with that same phone? That time you use to write down the updates you are going to post on your social media page, why not also use some of that time to write down an idea that have been hovering around your mind?
Engage in some close and sincere examination of yourself. Have fun imagining yourself doing the things you wish. Wishful thoughts and fantasies are sometimes enjoyable, aren't they?
Once you put down your ideas, just imagine yourself as the creator of that idea and people are now paying to get to you. With this kind of thought, you will have the strength to move ahead and categorize your ideas and then keep them ready to use. Good ideas are costly, very costly, I must tell you. It only starts like a joke or a play, but when it starts becoming useful and sellable, it will no longer be a child's play.
So if you want to make things work for you in writing, you got to start having fun with it right now.

6. Collate Your Work

Now, gather everything. All the categories and all the sub categories; keep all of them in view.
It's possible you didn't note down your ideas on just one device or one note pad. Now is the time to bring them together in one device. This will surely make you concentrate and have a better view of all your ideas.

7. Work on Your Work

Start putting everything straight. Start developing your ideas. Start writing your first drafts. Start creating your characters. Start arranging your plots. Start fine tuning your story lines and themes. Start setting out the times and seasons. Start visualizing and designing your locations; start to work on your work.
This is the building moment. It may get frustrating and discouraging; but one thing will lead you; determination.

8. Save Your Work

Do not waste your work on the social media. Do not share your work on your facebook page or any other. Your facebook friends may not be your appropriate audience. Your facebook friends are just a group of persons who are like you. They are hungry for ideas too. They want what you want. They can copy your idea if you tell them about it. In this case, your facebook friends are simply your rivals.
Just keep your work safe and then target your appropriate audience.
Anyway, you can still give your friends a hint on what you are up to.
Again, you have to be careful about 'calls for competitions'. Do not just send or submit your work to competition organizers who you cannot trust. You always need to verify whether any call is genuine or not. And if you know your work is not fit to win the competition, do not submit.

9. Create a Channel

Your aim is to make your work reach the target audience. For this to happen, you need to create a channel for that. You should have in mind of protecting your ideas and work, but yet exposing it to the appropriate persons.
Some of the ways of doing this is by registering in various online and offline forums. In these forums, you will meet other great minds like you. Together you can discuss what it means to belong to those forums. You will learn more about packaging and giving your work final touches. One joyful thing is that these forums are where your appropriate audience comes to search for you. The forum can be a website, a chat group, a web page, a class, a club and so on. Apart from these forums, you can create a personal weblog where you teach audience about your experiences in harnessing your ideas. Here, you share what you passed through from the beginning to that point. You guide and teach them how to write screenplays and also other forms of writing.
Since you have been in writing, you can also to some extent teaching people how to write. Just teach them any how you can, provided they understand you.
But in all these, make sure you protect your original ideas and work.
As you keep on doing these, you are also learning more, and you are also building your background in writing.
At a particular time, believe me; you will start getting clients who are very ready to pay you.

10. Self Development

Now that you have done it, keep on doing it. Keep on developing yourself. Always be ready and prepared to serve your customers.
Seek new ideas and methods. Teach more people. Distinguish yourself from others. Push your talent to the limit.


Written by: Winston 'Winny Greazy' Oge

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